Week 4: Jesus and the Children

The word translated by the NIV as “indignant” in verse 13 means more than merely “bothered.” Throughout the New Testament, it has strong connotations of irritation and anger. In ancient sources, the word can literally mean “bubbling” or “fermenting.” This wasn’t just a casual eye roll. Jesus was bubbling with frustration at his disciples’ behavior. Why? Because they wouldn’t let the little children come to him. Don’t get between Jesus and his kids!

If Jesus had been a pastor, I’m guessing he would have given a children’s sermon every Sunday. He loved kids; the littler the better. Such an observation might not shock us as moderns living in a culture where kids are often made the center of attention. But in Jesus’ day, his attitude was nothing short of radical. Children in ancient times were supposed to be seen, not heard. They were regarded as ignorant and unimportant. The disciples knew this, and maybe their hearts were even “in the right place” (as we often say). Their rabbi had a busy ministry schedule to keep after all. He’d probably had a long day, and dropping everything to give high-fives to a pack of rugrats was only going to slow them down.

But Jesus always seemed to have time for those the world regarded as unimportant. Not only did he stop to bless them, but he held the little children up as examples: “Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it” (v. 15). Jesus uses children to teach grown-ups about the kingdom of heaven. Specifically, he highlights their dependence. If you want to see the clearest picture of faith, Jesus says, look not to the wizened sage but to the unquestioning trust of a child.

Reflection Questions

1. What stands out to you most about this story? What grabs your attention?

2. How does the faith of a child differ from the faith of an adult?

3. Following Jesus’ example, how might your church better foster discipleship relationships between children and grown-ups?